Understanding Protective Orders
A protective order is a court order that can help protect you from abuse, stalking, harassment, or contact from the other person. It can set legal limits on what the other person is allowed to do - such as contact you or coming near you. You do not have to go through this process alone.
Getting a protective order usually involves a few steps, but help is available at each stage. You may be able to apply online or at your local courthouse.
Getting a protective order is an important step, but it’s not the end of the process. This action plan walks you through what to expect next, how long an order may last, and how to use it to stay safe in daily life.
If the other person violates a protective order, it can be frightening and confusing. This action plan explains what counts as a violation, what to do right away, and how to protect yourself.
Common Questions
Myths & Misunderstandings
TRUTH: Custody is not decided in a protective order (but children can be protected).
TRUTH: It is free to file for a protective order.
TRUTH: You must attend your hearing or your case may be dropped.
MYTH: “A protective order will fix everything.”
TRUTH: It helps with safety, but you may still need other legal help.
MYTH: “If I move, I won’t need the order.”
TRUTH: A protective order can still help protect you at home, work, and school.
More Resources
- National Domestic Violence Hotline — 1-800-799-7233 (24/7, confidential)
- LawHelp.org — Find free local legal help