Question 1

What counts as a violation?

Accepted Answer

A protective order may be violated if the other person:

Contacts you when the order says they cannot (calls, texts, emails, social media, or messages through other people)
Comes near you, your home, work, school, or other places listed in the order
Shows up at places they are ordered to stay away from
Threatens, harasses, or follows you
Does anything else the order specifically says they must not do

Question 2

What should I do right away?

Accepted Answer

If you are in immediate danger, call 911.
Report the violation to your local police department as soon as you can!  Most Departments will email or text you a link to upload photos, screenshots, video and documents to support your report.
Try to get to a safe place.
Tell the police that you have a protective order and that it has been violated.

Question 3

How can I document the violation?

Accepted Answer

If it is safe to do so:

Save messages, voicemails, emails, or screenshots
Write down what happened, including the date, time, and location
Keep copies of your protective order with you

This information can help law enforcement and the court.

Question 4

What happens after I report a violation?

Accepted Answer

Police may arrest or charge the other person for violating the order.
The court may schedule a hearing.
Violations can lead to criminal charges, additional penalties, or changes to the protective order.

Question 5

What if I’m not sure I want to call the police?

Accepted Answer

You can:

Go ahead and call. The Police will have a record of your call. The Police can tell you if they believe it may be a violation.
Talk to a domestic violence advocate about your options
Make a safety plan that fits your situation
Get legal information before deciding what to do next

You do not have to go through this alone.

Question 6

Where can I get help?

Accepted Answer

You can contact a local domestic violence program, legal aid organization, or crisis hotline for free and confidential support.

Search our directory or learn about hotlines and other crisis support.

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